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Found out several decades ago that a bottle or two of Red Horse erases all traces of shyness.

only trouble red horse kicks like a mule.your right tho

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I used to try that approach . Then i got tired of being by myself .  If you want to make something happen in just about anything in life you have to be prepared to make it happen.

My advice would be to forget "trying" to make a quick hookup.  Just go somewhere and have fun.  Go to Moalboal and try snorkeling or scuba diving.  Go to Oslob and see the whales.  Take a tour around

Found out several decades ago that a bottle or two of Red Horse erases all traces of shyness.

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Only bad advice I see here so far is this one ..... "take your time"   the poor guy has two weeks, now whilst I agree wife hunting in such a short space of time will likely end in failure he still has NO time to mess around.

 

Ass in gear and have some fun, make some friends/contacts ready for the next time and make that at least a month long vacation.

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A shy guy most likely has the blue balls and just wants to get laid in two weeks as much as possible! Try the mall action first and find a girl you like. Hello Im so and so,,would you like to join me for lunch or coffee? If no luck then go to Lone Star Bar that night bout 10pm to check out the selection :-)

Some years ago I went to Lone Star and told the girls I would be bringing in a new customer the following night. That he was a young Buddhist priest (true fact) and that he had never been with girl before. Never ever in my life have i seen women swarm around a guy like they did the following night and literally fighting each other over who was going to be his escort.

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He's going to be in Country for 2 weeks, during which he wants to find a potential wife?

 

Is this a script idea for the worst comedy/drama ever?

 

It would probably sell to a Pinoy producer, for local consumption.

 

Some people really do live in a bubble don't they?

 

I assume that the Op (and wife) put the shy guy and their friend together on the internet.  Everything went well, until reality kicked in on meeting, and the girl decided that he wasn't the one.  A common enough reality - I wonder if she met him at the airport.  Anyway, the poor guy has now been rejected, so he's still on the lookout for a likely 'wife' but remains painfully shy (whatever that means - virgin?).

 

Then, as if by magic, the LinC lounge lizards shuffle up with all sorts of advice, ranging from get tanked up on Red Horse to whale watching in Oslob.  You couldn't make this up!   :coffee:

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He's going to be in Country for 2 weeks, during which he wants to find a potential wife?

 

Is this a script idea for the worst comedy/drama ever?

 

It would probably sell to a Pinoy producer, for local consumption.

 

Some people really do live in a bubble don't they?

 

I assume that the Op (and wife) put the shy guy and their friend together on the internet.  Everything went well, until reality kicked in on meeting, and the girl decided that he wasn't the one.  A common enough reality - I wonder if she met him at the airport.  Anyway, the poor guy has now been rejected, so he's still on the lookout for a likely 'wife' but remains painfully shy (whatever that means - virgin?).

 

Then, as if by magic, the LinC lounge lizards shuffle up with all sorts of advice, ranging from get tanked up on Red Horse to whale watching in Oslob.  You couldn't make this up!   :coffee:

 

Besides laughing..  what advice do YOU have for the man?..  or is being helpful not in your nature?

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Besides laughing..  what advice do YOU have to the man?

 

That was part of the comedy.  I'm gay.  What possible drama could I add?

 

Having said that, if this goes into production, I will play the shy guy.

 

By the way, I have a personal rule never to act as an introducer.  Invariably these things can get out of hand.  Who needs that?

 

Shy guy needs to grow up.  The Philippines is likely to chew him up, and spit him out.

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Dave, as you know, the Philippines is not for the "shy" or introverted type of guy. Unless he learns to be more outgoing, he is going to find it very difficult to meet a girl. You should have tried to go with him, perhaps? 
Shy is ok, naive is bad.

 

Problem is she is acting cold and he thinks maybe she's not that into him.
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the LinC lounge lizards shuffle

 

Ha ha... do we have "lounge lizaards" here on our forum? It reminds me of Prime Minister Paul Keating, when he touched the British queen some years back. Fleet Street dubbed him "The Lizard of Oz"...

 

But then, he did say that he dont mind to have gays in the military... so "lounge lizards" cant be all that bad.... maybe... LOL

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Get that guy in to a girly bar and it will change his life, for better or worse, who knows, but he hasn't lived yet.

My life was much better before I got dragged to a girlie bar. I traveled for years there not visiting one. I had lots of money until then because I spent less and put more time into my work as i traveled. 

 

Not long after been taken to my first girl bar my relationship went sour with my long term girlfriend. Later I spent a lot of money as I went to bars nearly every night. 8 - 9 Months later I was near penniless, my  girlfriend was not close anymore.. We started going separate ways so I would drag girl after girl home or tried to as least. I started drinking spirits at Home for the first time in my life, this would be my warmup before I headed out. I even brought grass which was stupid there and smoked that before going out. I got addicted to girls and bars. I would got out nearly every night as it was cheap I kept telling myself but in reality it was not. I was spending more money than ever, throwing cash around at the bar, throwing a lot to street kids and eating out 3-4 times a day.

 

I must admit it was lots of fun but if I had a chance again I would not have done it.

 

Honestly stay away from bars if you can.

 

you have about 12 days left now, use it wisely ;)

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eating out 3-4 times a day.

 

moral of the story - dont eat out 3-4 times a day !!

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I went to bars nearly every night. 8 - 9 Months later I was near penniless, my  girlfriend was not close anymore..

 

How selfish of her.

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My life was much better before I got dragged to a girlie bar. I traveled for years there not visiting one. I had lots of money until then because I spent less and put more time into my work as i traveled. 

 

Not long after been taken to my first girl bar my relationship went sour with my long term girlfriend. Later I spent a lot of money as I went to bars nearly every night. 8 - 9 Months later I was near penniless, my  girlfriend was not close anymore.. We started going separate ways so I would drag girl after girl home or tried to as least. I started drinking spirits at Home for the first time in my life, this would be my warmup before I headed out. I even brought grass which was stupid there and smoked that before going out. I got addicted to girls and bars. I would got out nearly every night as it was cheap I kept telling myself but in reality it was not. I was spending more money than ever, throwing cash around at the bar, throwing a lot to street kids and eating out 3-4 times a day.

 

I must admit it was lots of fun but if I had a chance again I would not have done it.

 

Honestly stay away from bars if you can.

 

you have about 12 days left now, use it wisely ;)

 

Wow, I guess you should have paced yourself a little better. My g/f only lets me out once a week and I'm working the rest of the time so I'm not on a fixed income.

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After I got here I went to the bars a few times. Sometime my gf went with me sometimes I went alone. I went mostly out of curiosity... never did partake of the wares (so to speak) I can see how someone could become addicted to it. If I were here 30 years younger and single I would probably be in trouble. I wouldn't be the first guy that was a sucker for pretty young women paying attention to me.

 

The best advice I have seen in this thread was to enjoy your time here... 2 weeks is not a lot of time. Too bad the girl didn't work out because that would have been more enjoyable maybe,  but at least you didn't get scammed

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What bars? I never saw any filipina in hotel bars... occasionally western tourists but most of time it's only me who drink.

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What bars? I never saw any filipina in hotel bars... occasionally western tourists but most of time it's only me who drink.

 

 

you joking, right?

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