goggleye 1,519 Posted July 21, 2016 Share Posted July 21, 2016 This is getting blown out of all proportion. A woman's place is in the home, cooking, cleaning, looking after the household, keeping the kids clean and occupied, looking after her hunter/gatherer husband, and being dutiful and pleasing on the eye. No? For curiosity I had Neng read this- she agreed 100 percent maybe I found a good one. Link to post Share on other sites
+to_dave007 5,914 Posted August 3, 2016 Share Posted August 3, 2016 one lady in toledo said that she wanted me to wait at least 2 months before she would have sex with me, this was to make sure I was " serious" Well.. if you weren't being serious, then she was a smart lady. And if you are really looking for "marriage material" as you suggest you are, then is 2 months so long to wait? I think the lady has it exactly right. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Enuff 29,738 Posted August 3, 2016 Share Posted August 3, 2016 (edited) I have been through 100's of meaningless relationships and one night stands searching for love. I finally found a woman who wasn't 100% into at 1st sight and she honestly didn't want to date me. made me curious so I pursued her even more. eventually I caught her and have been with her ever since. not sure of my point here but the meaningless relationships and one night stands are sorely missed. Sent from my SM-G920V using Tapatalk Edited August 3, 2016 by Enuff 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Shrek484 340 Posted August 3, 2016 Author Share Posted August 3, 2016 Well.. if you weren't being serious, then she was a smart lady. And if you are really looking for "marriage material" as you suggest you are, then is 2 months so long to wait? I think the lady has it exactly right. When I am here for 1 month to 3 months at a time, waiting 3 months to find out the sex is rubbish! not really viable is it! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Pman 4,725 Posted August 4, 2016 Share Posted August 4, 2016 When I am here for 1 month to 3 months at a time, waiting 3 months to find out the sex is rubbish! not really viable is it! I know I'm the antithesis of most of the guys here. My honest answer: no it's not to long to wait. And sex is never rubbish. 6 Link to post Share on other sites
Shrek484 340 Posted August 4, 2016 Author Share Posted August 4, 2016 I know I'm the antithesis of most of the guys here. My honest answer: no it's not to long to wait. And sex is never rubbish. Your opinion and a good one, for me it is too long to wait and the sex can be rubbish. Differences of opinion is what makes the world go around. Thanks for the Polite reply. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Havelland 90 Posted August 4, 2016 Share Posted August 4, 2016 Not to burst your bubble, but Snow White was a whore. She slept with seven men - dwarfs, but still men. Oh, nothing wrong with sleazy women, even now. Just sayin'... Ash, if little things get to you, what's going to happen when a big thing happens? You need to give her a bit more credit. My advice - yes, not knowing what these things were, is to go back with her and realize and accept she is human to. You need to keep in mind, first and foremost, the differences in the cultures. Then, above that, even though Filipinos speak better English than any other SE Asians, communication issues ARE still present. Big difference between speaking English, and English comprehension. Be more patient. You seem to have time in with this gal. Don't blow it now. Not over trivial shit. You are better than that. Finally, someone who understands what we men need! Do you mean "real" men? Link to post Share on other sites
Paul 55,114 Posted August 4, 2016 Share Posted August 4, 2016 Do you mean "real" men? If "real men" are animals. Link to post Share on other sites
thebob 18,260 Posted August 4, 2016 Share Posted August 4, 2016 I can see there are some real romantics in this forum. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Mikal 369 Posted August 4, 2016 Share Posted August 4, 2016 When I took a ride on the magic bus (AKA The Meat Grinder) I went through several phases. But one thing that I did consistently through all the ups and downs was to pay attention - phils is different, very, very different than where I'm from. What I once found to incredibly ridiculous, well, that's simply how it is in phils. So I did try to learn, and I think that I did learn enough to start to see that many things and many people are not black and white at all, there are many shades of grey (no pun intended) involved. I do still remember when I used to make the mistake of actually looking at and mentioning religious affiliations and such. Not the best approach at all - no one actually cares unless you bring it up... ;-) Trust me on that one. Chat at your own peril, to me anything past where & when is pretty much a waste. I completely swore off any online emotional involvement. At the height of my feeding frenzy I was hard pressed to wait through a leisurely lunch to find out if the sex was going to be good or not. But to each their own. And as the ladies would say, don't judge me... :-) 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Willyv2b 119 Posted August 4, 2016 Share Posted August 4, 2016 I asked a filipina once about the FB thing and dating more than one person at a time. She stated that the filipina is looking for the needle in a large place and needs to look all over to find it. She also said they are looking for the one in a million so they date one million. At least she was honest. Link to post Share on other sites
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