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Annnnnd TJ tags into the ring, letting the Frog come out. And, boy, does he come in punchin'! 

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It is important to me. And I do not want a virgin that has to be taught about the birds and the bees. So I want to know that she isn't.

 

So, if it's important to you, just ask her. It is a little more accepted here to ask her if she has ever had a serious boyfriend than it is to come right out and ask if she is a virgin or if she has had sex. "Serious boyfriend" is kind of like code words for sex here. She will understand what you are really asking.

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I've been communicating with a pretty sweet, educated, 30 year old gal for more than 5 months now. She's from Davao and works full-time at an international food company that exports mostly fruits like bananas. She is mostly involved with office tasks but occasionally has to go out to farms. She seems really devoted and even removed her profile online. A few weeks ago I got pissed off at something she said in an email and I stopped replying to any of her emails for about 5 days. She said she broke down over it and was just a mess by the 4th or 5th day when she thought I had just vanished from her life. She said it brought back memories of previous trouble with her former best friend and her past relationships. She has never mentioned she's a virgin before. Does this mean that she is not? Wouldn't a virgin have mentioned it by now?

Just tell her that after you meet that wont be a problem any more.  :db:

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I have to admit, I am curious as to what you got pissed about, that caused you to ignore her communications for five days? 

 

Inquiring minds want to know. You, however, may not want to post the reason(s).

 

I think anytime you go to people asking for advice then you are required to give the basic details so they can make a wiser choice .  Sooooo- what did she supposedly do that got you so upset ?

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She did not speak to him for 2 days

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A guy asks a question and is attacked.  Isn't it up to him who he wants to spend his time with?  Did he say he only wanted to be with a virgin?  No. Perhaps a virgin is something he doesn't want but everyone assumes he does.  And if so what business is it of yours?

Sounds like someone needs a hug.

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It is important to me. And I do not want a virgin that has to be taught about the birds and the bees. So I want to know that she isn't.

  

 

 

 

I probably owe you an apology - most men to whom it is of concern want a virgin not the other way around.

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If there is a virgin 30 year old in the Philippines, it's either a nun or the Virgin Mary..... :ROFLMAO:

 

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I know two virgins who are over age 30, one is 39, the other 48. Neither are nuns or named Mary. The 48 year old is a very nice looking lady, and smart (maybe that's why she is still a virgin!). My wife was a 24 year old virgin when I married her.

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She did not speak to him for 2 days

 

 

mmmm I wonder if she has a sister ?? women like that are hard to find !

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If there is a virgin 30 year old in the Philippines, it's either a nun or the Virgin Mary..... :ROFLMAO:

 

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I beg to disagree with you 100%

On one of my vacations

I called one of my old time friends to meet me

Were the same age

And i tell you she was virgin when she came to see me :rofl:

The only thing scared me about virgin they will fall hard on you

And never let go

To this day shes waiting for me to go back home

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I believe that there are still many virgins out there in the Philippines, many who are busy with school, studying, etc. And then they see the BS going on from the boys in the neighborhood, unwanted pregnancies and the consequences.

 

Just ask her, but better not direct. More like, did you have a real BF before, how long have you been together, did you do things men and women do in bed. Less offensive than the direct question.

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Less offensive than the direct question.

 

filipinas constantly amaze me with their having no hesitation to discuss things that we in the West are shy to talk about !! 

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To this day shes waiting for me to go back home

 

I want you to go back home too. :D

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A guy asks a question and is attacked.  Isn't it up to him who he wants to spend his time with?  

 

We're LinC.

We have a reputation to live up down to.


 

 

filipinas constantly amaze me with their having no hesitation to discuss things that we in the West are shy to talk about !! 

 

Yeah, this morning a buy introduces me to a female friend of his.  He later mentions that she has two kids and she says - "Yes, only my nose is a virgin.  And my ass."

 

Whhaaaaat?

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