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Do you expect your friends to tell you if your gf/wife is cheating on you ?

 

 

i don't think my friends would want to incriminate themselves.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

i'm soooo dead :)

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Well there you have it. 

If I was in my late 60's and I managed to find a beautiful young wife in her early 20's, I don't think my expectations would be as high as they were when I was a strapping young jock.   Be realistic

i have a funny funny story that's similar.  back 8 years ago when my wife was pregnant with our daughter,  i got a few texts from some unknown number in fractured english stating that my wife was a bl

I would want to be told.

I was told! Didn't make a blind bit of difference. Good thing now is i can sit down with the guys that told me and laugh about it. A lot are in the club and had similar mistakes but finally got in right by finding partners through 'better channels'. Some are still deep in the shit and you know its only a matter of time before they will also see sense and sort it out. As already said they ALL find partners. That works both ways. 

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The truth is here where I live, I cant even go get a beer without somebody texting her I saw your husband at so and so...probably hoping to piss her off, the good news is she text back....so....

 

 

i have a funny funny story that's similar.  back 8 years ago when my wife was pregnant with our daughter,  i got a few texts from some unknown number in fractured english stating that my wife was a blah blah blah and was pregnant not by me but from some swedish guy.  my wife and i were giggling reading the texts as obviously they were coming from a certain competitor upset with our biz practices.  finally when the person reiterated that some mysterious swedish guy impregnated my wife i replied "i asked my wife and she said not swedish it was a black guy."

 

no more texts :)    

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I had one once where my wife received an sms report that "I just saw your husband on the terraces at Ayala".  And indeed, I had just finished banking at HSBC and had gone to Shakey's for a pizza lunch.  It led to an argument, that lasted some hours..  as I was accused of X and Y and Z..  until I asked my wife..  did you think to ask your friend who I was with?  So she did.. and the argument was ended quickly, and we never had another caused by an sms.

 

That afternoon as I was waiting for my pizza an older expat..  close to 90 and a long term resident.. was passing my table looking desperately like he needed someone to talk to.  So he and I shared a table for an hour or so, until lunch was done, and we both left.

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Sounds a lot like some of the replies my wife sends out...we were talking after we got back from AC, one of the things we very much like is the feeling of being anonymous  ...not like here where it seems everything you do (both her and me and the kids) is scrutinized by nosey neighbors, relatives, whomever...

You probably get the same in Cebu ...in AC, there are so many foreigners running around with their gf/wife, whatever...nobody even looks twice at us.. 

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Agree.. there is no sense of anonymity in rural Cebu at all..  and the reports make their way back to the province from Toledo, Balanban, Bogo, Consolacion.. Liloan.. Mandaue..  and the city.  Doesn't really matter where I am.  It's just a fact of life..  and nothing really I can do about it.  And it's not equal.,.  as I don't have an army reporting anything to me..  but that's ok with me.

 

The key is just to not let these sms "arrows" cause injury.  My wife doesn't let them faze her any more.. and we aren't having arguments caused by sms any more.

Mind you it helps that I'm not out trying to screw around too.. so really not much of interest to report.

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she already had 3 children from 3 different fathers and he met her working in a bar in Singapore.

 

In most situations, I would tell a friend.  But, (if I'm reading you correct) in his situation; 3 kids/w different fathers - ex bar worker? I would say he would not have the ability to properly digest the truth.

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In most situations, I would tell a friend.  But, (if I'm reading you correct) in his situation; 3 kids/w different fathers - ex bar worker? I would say he would not have the ability to properly digest the truth.

 

Or.. just possibly..  he FULLY understands the truth, and accepts her with all her faults.  Been known to happen you know..

I wouldn't wish to share my girl..  but some men are quite comfortable to share. 

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Or.. just possibly..  he FULLY understands the truth, and accepts her with all her faults.  Been known to happen you know..

I wouldn't wish to share my girl..  but some men are quite comfortable to share. 

 

 

He seems to love this girl - 3 kids or not. And he treats the kids as his own. In fact he put off his planned retirement so as to make more money to send them to good schools.  As much as I was outraged by her conduct I couldnt help but think that maybe it would work out and they would all be happy.  As to her running around on him in Australia- I think she has far fewer available temptations open to her there.  Rather than having a mom and helper living with her she is now a full time stay at home mom. hehe

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I don't really understand why people find fidelity so important.  Sex isn't an expression of love, it's an expression of lust.

That's sad. Don't assume everyone is like you.

 

Edit: Please don't take offense, I'm not tryng to insult you.

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Don't assume everyone is like you.

 

I don't.  I often find it's hard work being a superior person.

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she already had 3 children from 3 different fathers and he met her working in a bar in Singapore.

 

I started to feel the slightest hint of pity for him, than I read this.  Dumbass.  

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"Do you expect your friends to tell you if your gf/wife is cheating on you ?"

 

NO!

I don't have friends!!

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"Do you expect your friends to tell you if your gf/wife is cheating on you ?"

 

NO!

I don't have friends!!

 

 

well thats a relief then . I was scared someone would tell you about her and I .  [ i wont tell you which one of your wives it was though]

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I don't.  I often find it's hard work being a superior person.

if you are superior it would be a crime to limit yourself to one partner. I'm thinking of setting up a sperm bank in the RP...you can be the head stud.
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