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jayannedgar5

I just want to make sure that I am not under any mistaken belief . Are these photos of you ??

The third person in 2nd photo is Me who close my eyes coz I shy to show my eye I always hide my left eye using my hair

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jayannedgar5

Yes, I see it here.

 

Did you go to a hospital or eye surgeon? If so, which one? For how long have you had this condition?

 

I do understand the difference it would make if it was fixed. I suggest you think of how you can raise some funds from a number of people, rather than asking for it all from one source. Can you contribute anything yourself? Can you get any assistance? Do you have any relatives who could contribute?

I didn't go to any surgeon or hospital my eye condition is inborn my can't help that's why asking help who will help me

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jtmwatchbiz

Nope I. Was inborn in this eye condition it's OK if nobody will help me here

 

 

jay anne,

 

there is no one single spokesperson on this forum that makes decisions to help or not help.  some have posted that they don't seem to take your condition serious but they don't speak for the entire forum.  others have made it obvious that they are not inclined to help but again, they don't speak for the entire forum. 

 

if you would like to seek help from this forum then the next step you should take is gather up whatever medical records you have and make arrangements to meet a member that is living in the manila area.  if you can do that then your request for help will move forward to the next step which is an independent medical exam. depending on the outcome of that exam, arrangements for a fund drive can be made here on this forum for your treatment. 

 

do you have any plans on being in cebu at some point in the near future?  if so my wife and our business crew can meet you and get this going.  if not then as i mentioned, you will need to meet a member that lives in the manila area.       

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jayannedgar5

jay anne,

 

there is no one single spokesperson on this forum that makes decisions to help or not help. some have posted that they don't seem to take your condition serious but they don't speak for the entire forum. others have made it obvious that they are not inclined to help but again, they don't speak for the entire forum.

 

if you would like to seek help from this forum then the next step you should take is gather up whatever medical records you have and make arrangements to meet a member that is living in the manila area. if you can do that then your request for help will move forward to the next step which is an independent medical exam. depending on the outcome of that exam, arrangements for a fund drive can be made here on this forum for your treatment.

 

do you have any plans on being in cebu at some point in the near future? if so my wife and our business crew can meet you and get this going. if not then as i mentioned, you will need to meet a member that lives in the manila area.

I want to meet a member here in person coz I really want to correct my eye
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spydoo

Would anyone in Manila donate their time to meet this girl?

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jayannedgar5

No one will :(

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SomeRandomGuy

No one will :(

Thats a very negative outlook.

Firstly this is a Cebu forum and people living in Cebu so there will be very few people on this site that live in manila.

 

The people that live in manila, believe it or not, may not be on every day.

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That Masked Man

No one will :(

 

Give it a few days. There are some members in Manila, though of course not as many as in Cebu, or even some other parts of the Visayas. If you are serious about this, I am pretty sure SOMEONE will be willing to meet with you, If I was in Manila I would meet with you, but I'm not. But someone will end up passing through Manila if nothing else. I'm no doctor, but I doubt your strabismus will get any worse in a week or two. So just hold on until someone can meet you.

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Lee

After seeing so many jump in to help Shadow, and reading how many kind hearted people there were, or are, on this forum, I think it is only normal for someone who read all that, to think that they too could ask for help. I have no idea if she is for real or not but all too often some of us jump to conclusions and are therefore quick to insult a person asking for help, without knowing if it is real or fake. 

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Davaoeno
all too often some of us jump to conclusions and are therefore quick to insult a person asking for help, without knowing if it is real or fake.

 

 

I agree.  What I am saying is that expressing your honest opinions on a matter should not be taken as being insulting just because you do not agree with something.  People should not be discouraged from being honest just so that someone's feelings dont get hurt .   Thats part of the risk that you assume when you approach a bunch of strangers asking them to give you  a large sum of money . If you are not prepared to defend your request then you shouldnt be making it . 

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spydoo

If you are not prepared to defend your request then you shouldnt be making it . 

I completely agree.

 

I also believe one should be prepared to defend allegations made against such a person even more. After all, it isn't a crime to ask, but it is to slander someone online in The Philippines.

 

One can always just say, "no". In fact, one doesn't even have to do that if they don't wish to give. 

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Cebuandrew

To me, just seems like the wrong place to ask. This Forum is called "living in Cebu." There are expat forums based out of Manila. Did she post on those forums? And yes, I don't think there is any possible way any of us is going to fork over money to a stranger, without verifying who she is in person and her medical records, and the seriousness of her condition.

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mecares

No one will :(

 

 

Jay Ann perhaps it's better to wait awhile, if a member(s) is willing to help then you will be helped. The forum members and you don't know each other. Even your profile doesn't match with your post about yourself. So how does one know if you're truthful or not? I'm not trying to insult you, just being realistic.

 

I have a friend with your condition. She's in her late 30's now and she's living with her condition well. She got more "crossed eyes" than yours and wearing a prescription glasses. Surgery is never a guarantee that it can be corrected. You said that it's inborn so if it's not treated earlier then it's not that easy. Our eyes usually reach growth maturity at the age of 11 or earlier.

 

Also, most people would give help according to the severity of the person's condition. So just be patient. 

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jayannedgar5

Jay Ann perhaps it's better to wait awhile, if a member(s) is willing to help then you will be helped. The forum members and you don't know each other. Even your profile doesn't match with your post about yourself. So how does one know if you're truthful or not? I'm not trying to insult you, just being realistic.

 

I have a friend with your condition. She's in her late 30's now and she's living with her condition well. She got more "crossed eyes" than yours and wearing a prescription glasses. Surgery is never a guarantee that it can be corrected. You said that it's inborn so if it's not treated earlier then it's not that easy. Our eyes usually reach growth maturity at the age of 11 or earlier.

 

Also, most people would give help according to the severity of the person's condition. So just be patient.

I don't know how to change my profile info I sign up here that was the info Appear in my profile I don't know how to change it will you help how to change the info

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That Masked Man

I don't know how to change my profile info I sign up here that was the info Appear in my profile I don't know how to change it will you help how to change the info

 

Click on your name in the top right. Choose My Profile, then click on Edit Profile.

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jayannedgar5

It's done

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spydoo

That should help. Kanos are a suspicious lot and like to see that everything lines up. I hope someone from Manila reads this thread soon and finds time to meet up with you. 

 

If not, does anyone know of a good eye surgeon in Manila who could examine her? I know a few blokes had their cataracts done...

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loy

That should help. Kanos are a suspicious lot and like to see that everything lines up. I hope someone from Manila reads this thread soon and finds time to meet up with you. 

 

If not, does anyone know of a good eye surgeon in Manila who could examine her? I know a few blokes had their cataracts done...

Hey guys my bad. I did not intend to disrespect anyone. If she have a legitimate request i will be the first to contribute. Which i have done many times previously. Sorry if i offended you Jayann.

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jayannedgar5

To me, just seems like the wrong place to ask. This Forum is called "living in Cebu." There are expat forums based out of Manila. Did she post on those forums? And yes, I don't think there is any possible way any of us is going to fork over money to a stranger, without verifying who she is in person and her medical records, and the seriousness of her condition.

It's OK if don't want to help but don't judge me coz you don't know I'm telling a truth god knows that I'm not swindler person
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Paul

Okay. I think this topic has gone along far enough. She has been giving advice, and people may contact her if they wish to help her out. 

 

JayAnne, I hope this is satisfactory to you. I have done what I can for you, here. If you need further assistance, I suggest you follow some of the contacts offered here. 

 

Thanks to all. 

 

I am locking this thread now. 

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