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It would defy logic if the husband would be allowed inside. That's the purpose of the seminar anyway, to get lectured about possible dangers etc. involving the husband and his home country. It has been years but as far as I remember the CFO seminar and sticker was the most easy part of the whole process. Just stay calm and follow the  rules, I agree with some posters here, what's the fuss all about?

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The CFO Seminar? That's where the nuns tell them about how their western husbands are going to rape, beat, and torture them, prior to burying them in the backyard.    They attempt to fill the girls'

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Im on a couple of forums, and this has been discussed on all of them, here is what Ive learned in a nut shell, if at all possible, Do Not Go To Cebu, they seem to try to make it hard...somebody on one of the forums (I cant remember who or which one) said that years ago the one in Cebu was run by nuns that tried to keep girls from marrying foreigners and though that was years ago, they seemed to have passed that attitude to the present management there..

 

To a person, everybody that has gone to Manila that posted their experience had no trouble...we have not done the CFO thing yet, its on our list, but when we do we will go to the Manila office

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You are expected to bring a photo album of pics taken together.   Paid the fee of PHP400, got a sticker and out by 12noon.

 

My wife did the CFO thing Mar 11. She did not bring nor was she asked for a photo album.

 

She finished about 1:30 pm.

 

Apparently these CFO classes are like snow flakes .. no two alike.

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My wife did hers in Cebu '13....besides the early AM lineup to fill the 12 slots available, it was basically lectures on life in OZ and their rights if things went bad.....The one on one private interview after the lectures were over tended to give the younger ladies a more intensive grilling.....

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My wife did the CFO thing Mar 11. She did not bring nor was she asked for a photo album.

 

I am guessing but they may have different requirements for the “married” and “fiancé(e)”???  ;)

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I am guessing but they may have different requirements for the “married” and “fiancé(e)”???  ;)

 

I just asked my wife and you may be right about different requirements. She vaguely recalls being split into fiance/spousal groups. Although honestly I have no idea what difference it should make. Further I think asking for photo albums, presumably to establish relationship, is out of their pay grade and job description.

I can tell you that both my wife and I got the third degree by a newbie BI officer when we went to Singapore. I was rapidly losing my patience humoring her, she was over her head and realized it, and finally let us go.

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My wife said it was useless now after the fact. She was not grilled hard in Cebu however others were. I think the fact we were married 2+ years and had 2 kids.

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My wife said it was useless now after the fact.

 

This is the booklet they used for lecture/discussions:

 

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For most of us, law-abiding citizens, it may be “useless” but I hear horror stories marrying certain foreigners (sham marriage, divorce, sold for prostitution, etc. in fact, I understand some Asian countries enacted laws banning their young girls marrying men from certain countries) and if even one Filipina is saved from such a misery, I think it’s worth it…

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1. The CFO Guidance and counselling seminar is not required for filipinas travelling overseas on Tourist visas - my fiancee (gf at the time) traveled to Malaysia, Australia and New Zealand on her own to visit me - they asked her a few questions, but never mentioned CFO while on a visitor visa (she is 22).

 

2. You cannot get a CFO sticker in your passport without a partner visa - they won't give you a sticker with a visitor visa - you will get a certificate for doing the counselling session, but nothing in your passport.

 

BTW - who is the "they" saying she needs the CFO

If this question is considered off topic pls let me know & ill start a thread: what if your fiance is here on a bridging visa, still need to waste time & money doing this ?

 

All the calls made so far are dead ends. The whole thing sounds like a load of bollocks, we are here with a baby (born in aus) & now the mrs & bub may be stuck here..

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If this question is considered off topic pls let me know & ill start a thread: what if your fiance is here on a bridging visa, still need to waste time & money doing this ?

 

All the calls made so far are dead ends. The whole thing sounds like a load of bollocks, we are here with a baby (born in aus) & now the mrs & bub may be stuck here..

 

That is a grey area - I am guessing the CFO doodles don't even know what a bridging visa is.

 

What would happen if you got married and applied for a new passport in her married name at the consulate in Australia - would they make you go back to the Philippines to do a CFO session?

 

In the end - it's a stupid bloody process.

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d: what if your fiance is here on a bridging visa

What do you mean by HERE?  If your profile listed 1 location I would assume HERE was that location but with 2 listed I can only assume here to mean here on the internet.

 

And what is a bridging visa?

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s) and if even one Filipina is saved from such a misery, I think it’s worth it…
To be honest I would be beyond surprised if the BS in this seminar did the slightest bit of good.  Such a program could have a chance of helping a few girls if done properly but that won't happen here.  So everyone is inconvenienced for no gain.  It's like the "Affidavit in lieu of CENOMAR" required for American's to marry here.  It has not stopped, nor will it ever stop, one single polygamist from marrying in this country.
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What do you mean by HERE? If your profile listed 1 location I would assume HERE was that location but with 2 listed I can only assume here to mean here on the internet.

 

And what is a bridging visa?

Um Cebu.. & sounds like you cant help me if you are unaware of the Australian migration process. Thanks anyway

 

..not trying to be a smart ass either, considering the topic is about leaving (the philippines)/not coming in plus on my profile it says aus/cebu, not that we live here full time.

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That is a grey area - I am guessing the CFO doodles don't even know what a bridging visa is.

 

What would happen if you got married and applied for a new passport in her married name at the consulate in Australia - would they make you go back to the Philippines to do a CFO session?

 

In the end - it's a stupid bloody process.

That is a grey area - I am guessing the CFO doodles don't even know what a bridging visa is.

 

What would happen if you got married and applied for a new passport in her married name at the consulate in Australia - would they make you go back to the Philippines to do a CFO session?

 

In the end - it's a stupid bloody process.

We are taking the steps toward full aus citizenship so my understanding is she will eventually carry a aussie passport, seems in the short term we are going to have to take the journey, just drove 2 hrs & still in process of obtaining police clearence - part of ID requirements. Yaay :-)

 

Ah & to answer your question, to our knowledge, no. We weren't even told (by anyone,either country) this was a requirement. Perhaps because of the way we went about the migration - she came to aus on a visitor visa & is now on bridging untill partner visa application is approved. From reading it seems the CFO hokey pokey dont apply to tourists.

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