Traps and double speak on the Dating Sites

[Pman 4,660]

1.  Many pics of very young 20-30 beautiful woman are interested in men in their 60, 70 and beyond...

 

2.  Most woman describe themself as simple.

 

3.  They are all looking for a real man...

 

4.  Along with the real man they want real Love. ..

 

5.  All woman want a man that does not play games.

 

6.  I am looking for somebody to be able to talk too....

 

7.  What is up with the pics.

 

8.  I am surprised at how many ladies have a BA or university degree.

 

9.  I do like the many pics that show the basic physical difference between PI ladies and Thai ladies.

 

10.  The particular website lists about 30 jobs so a person can click on the type of work that they do.  Of course, one catch all would be Other.  I am amazed at how many ladies work at Other.  Like maybe 65% of them have an Other job.  What could it be as so many were listed before other.  Then the profiles that say single with kids, no job, stay at home.  How can this work, how can they eat?

 

11.  Older ladies tend not to be beautiful ... they must have great personalities. 

 

Or guys, enough of my  babble.  What do you see, think and know about PI, woman and dating.

1. It's true they are interested in you. If you want to be cynical, some will be happy if you die soon and leave you money but most are looking for love. Most women I met on those sites though really don't seem to mind the age gap because you will provide them a better life than they might not have otherwise. Up to you if your ok with that.

2. Low maintenance (trying to say they will cost you less money).

3. Real man = man who won't sleep around on them and will make enough money to support them.

4. Real love = faithful and loving... Philippina = Asian beauty with Spanish heart.

5. Play games = "butterfly" or "playboy" = sleeping around, not interested in marriage.

6. Talk to = pay attention to her, not all the other beautiful women around her plus not just ask for sex on webcam.

7. Web cam with her, if you are interested come see in real life. Don't believe height, weight, pics....

8. ALready answered several times. Many are also looking for someone to pay for their school and have many boyfriends helping pay their education.

9. As I already said... Asian beauty with Spanish heart... you've been warned. There are many threads on here that will explain that if you want to look...

10. Answered several times. Look at the thread on cost of living thread... you can live for cheap in PH... but you might not like to live like that. There is no welfare, families take care of one another. When you marry one you will be expected to help family. Get used to that idea or don't marry a Philippina. Doesn't mean your an ATM machine (though some will want you for that).

11. Asian women tend to age beautifully, I've seen many that are in 50's that don't look 30. And a 30-40 will be given a kid's menu here in the USA.

 

What do I think? I think Philippina are the most beautiful and best women in the world, but as in all things there are many scammers. Keep your eyes open and you'll be ok.

Edited March 10, 2014 by Pman

[glucoseface 9]

one guy asked a girl if she had any children and she said no, when they met for date she brought 6 month old her son...................... she said "you ask if I have children, I only have child"

Flawless victory! LOL

 

 

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[Enuff 29,735]

if it was me doing it all over again, knowing what I know now..................... go to church!!!

 

OMG, many nice, beautiful girls there. of course it wont be quick and it wont be sexually gratifying soon but you will find a nice girl. 

 

hey that's the same advice I have received for the USA............... I guess it applies worldwide.

[Jess Bartone 1,774]

Refer to post #18 for the answer to that question.

 

Your post is #15

 

Damn Ian, nice post.

 

Agreed. I think a lot of the curry Ian delivers is tongue-in-cheek, but deep down he's a good bloke with a heart.

[motorboy 2,325]

I have found the online dating sites to be a total waste of time. The girls don't read your profile, respond with total crap, can't seem to remember your previous conversation, and usually are a pinoy boy using his cousin's photos too suck money out of you. Total waste of time

[HTM 5,414]

 

 

what is an amateur prostitute, apart from being an oxymoron?

 

 

The same as regular prostitute.
The difference is that they do not charge you.

 

[Mikala 14,383]

 

 

The difference is that they do not charge you.

 

I met a cute 18 year old girl from the DIA website back in November. She said that she has been plying her tradecraft since she was 14 years of age. She goes to the Mango Square area most every weekend, finds a guy that looks like he has some money, entertains him as much as possible, eats as much free food as possible and then waits for him to give her some money the next morning. If he doesn't offer it to her, then she will tell him about the sad situation with her parents and lesbian sister, then ask him to give her some money. She says most of the time the guy gives her at least 1,000p. BUT! She's not a prostitute! She's very clear about that. There's no way that she's a prostitute and she gets very angry if I suggest that she's basically a prosti.

 

So maybe she's an amateur prosti? Perhaps Escort is a better term?

 

Note: I went to Mango Square bars once, but feared organ damage from the intensity of the music. Never went back...  

On the bright side, I also met a few girls from DIA that were normal girls. They've never asked me for money and appreciate just going to a movie or eating some street food.

[cebubird 5,391]

Your post is #15

 

 

Agreed. I think a lot of the curry Ian delivers is tongue-in-cheek, but deep down he's a good bloke with a heart.

 

Ahhhh---Let's not get too carried awa and get too maudlin here.

[Jess Bartone 1,774]

I have found the online dating sites to be a total waste of time. The girls don't read your profile, respond with total crap, can't seem to remember your previous conversation, and usually are a pinoy boy using his cousin's photos too suck money out of you. Total waste of time

 

Not entirely. I met my wife on a dating site and she's a gem, but that was only after talking to countless ladies who invariably asked for money, something my wife never did.

 

 

 

Ahhhh---Let's not get too carried awa and get too maudlin here.

 

Yeah sorry I had a momentary lapse of reason.

Edited March 11, 2014 by Jess Bartone

[davewe 488]

My first thought when reading the OP's post was - what a moron

My 2nd thought was that three years ago I was just such a moron.

 

I think it is reasonable to come to a forum such as this and ask such questions - and the OP has gotten a few very good answers.

 

However I think it is far better to ask the Filipinas you are talking to chatting with or exchanging emails. Ask them what they mean when they say simple or why they might be amenable to middle aged or older men? I think you will find the answers enlightening.

 

Yes there are scammers to avoid, but there are many who are not scammers and quite genuine.

 

And the other thing to do is check out the men on this forum. Don't know the percentages but most seem married or with serious partners. And not surprisingly, many found their wives/gfs online. Something to consider.

Edited March 11, 2014 by davewe

[sjp 316]

I think meeting girls online is a great way to meet the love of your life. Many men come to the Philippines to find a girl and they only have 3 weeks. If you find some girls online before you come ( and don,t limit it to one ) and talk with them and find out all about them you can then come to meet them in person and find out if you hit it off. You will probably need more than one visit to know if the girl you find is the right one. It took me three more visits to the Philippines after meeting my wife before I asked her to marry me. We have been married for 4.5 years and I,m still learning new things about her.

 

The biggest mistake I hear guys doing is meeting a girl online and sending them money before they have come here to meet them in person. I laugh when I go into internet cafes and see a Filipina talking online with a foreigner and her boyfriend is sitting beside her just out of view of the cam. I have also heard through family and friends that they know or have heard of lots of Filipina that are stringing along 2 or 3 foreigners and receiving  money from them all

Edited March 11, 2014 by sjp

[sperman 382]

one girl i met said her friends helped her fill out the online form with anything they could think of. it was dome with humor and no intention of honesty. and she did go to bible classes.

they DO have high age tolerance but a friend who worked amongst them in oz post said many were waiting for their husbands to die. fact or fiction i dont know.

regarding conversation, another oz guy said; "tell them twice, then ask them to tell it back to you". i can vouch for that, and am happily married 8 years with 2 boys. there are still times when great care needs to be taken to get ones thoughts across. in my opinion they are very right brained and will often feel or dream events in the past or future which prove accurate. in all about 6 filipinas in my past and sexual hang-ups totally absent. i have recently returned from thailand and agree there are far more attractive women in the philippines.

Edited March 11, 2014 by sperman