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mrlondon

The speed these girls move at is incredible. I think I have been through the beggining, middle, and end of a relationship in 3 months. We went through the infatuation period, the every day life stage, and then the realising we are not meant to be together stage, all in 3 months! But, may I add, it was her actions that drove those stages. Anyway, that's not important: the point is, I have found from chatting to many girls online that they want to move at a very fast pace. Any tips on getting them to slow down? 

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TorJay

Play a little harder to get?

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Chris24

Juggle three at once but in staggered relationship cycles?

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thebob

It's only words on a screen. It doesn't count until you get here.

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Laurence

It's like speed fishing. Get the foreigners to bite quickly and then reel 'em in. I suppose maybe it is a bit of desperation on the part of someone who sees marriage to a foreigner as "making it" in life.

If I knew then what I know now about internet dating I might not be married now.

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BFHammer

It is on both sides.  The serious girls don't want to play games and be used by some dreamer in his mom's basement.  The scammers want their payday.   

On the guy's side 80-90% of guys online are married or never actually going to visit.  They want cheap webcam sex.  The other guys get so overwhelmed by offers they just pick one to calm things down often.  

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Laurence

BUT ... sometimes it can work for both sides. There are so many angles going on in internet dating that it takes a lot of work and meeting people in person. I was lucky.

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Dragonladies.org

Somebody is sending her money, or more money than you...or an online 'BF' actually arrived to meet her, and she'll be busy for a while.   You'll have to wait your turn.

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tokyoman

The local girls that move too fast are either girls who have lived abroad and are westernized or have slept with Kano in Cebu  before

 

It's no harm in meeting them for a coffee and seeing if you meet each others needs or not

 

One Aussie guy I know met 8 of them (with some chaperones) at jolibee at one time.....it cost him 2000 pesos but he saved a hell of a lot of  time 

He is still with one of the girls who he met that day.

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BFHammer

The biggest challenge is for guys who cannot live there for awhile.  They turn to the internet both for speed and convenience.  Which can work if a fellow is careful and as things progress have pointman check them out.   There will always be surprises whether your in person or online after people are living together.  My last gf in the US was a completely different person after the 2nd year and had to go.  Or maybe I just didn't see it and it was already there.  

 

When a guy has 2 weeks to a couple months to meet a girl and make a decision things will move fast.  So if he is 30-40 range he is taking a risk meeting and marrying quickly.  Yet what is the available pool of gals in that age range back home?  Divorced, bitter, 2-3 kids, and looking for sugar daddy no less than the 20 year old there.  At least worst case he's getting a young pretty gold digger, and if he's careful he's just getting young, pretty, gold. 

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hyaku

A scam is a scam, long term or short. Maybe best to be satisfied with the fact you are actually free to move on.

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ozboy

Try a dating site back home..you would be lucky to find one show of interest!!!! enjoy being the centre of attention LOL

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smokey

The speed these girls move at is incredible. I think I have been through the beggining, middle, and end of a relationship in 3 months. We went through the infatuation period, the every day life stage, and then the realising we are not meant to be together stage, all in 3 months! But, may I add, it was her actions that drove those stages. Anyway, that's not important: the point is, I have found from chatting to many girls online that they want to move at a very fast pace. Any tips on getting them to slow down? 

yes tell them your broke

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jtmwatchbiz

 

 

The speed these girls move at is incredible. I think I have been through the beggining, middle, and end of a relationship in 3 months. We went through the infatuation period, the every day life stage, and then the realising we are not meant to be together stage, all in 3 months!

 

 

you internet guys are light weights. 3 months? get your boots on the ground here in fuente and y'all can go thru all 3 relationship stages with 2 or 3 gals per nite :)

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