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I have lived in Cebu for around 3 years and met many of the expats. There are a few good guys here but I have to say the majority are not worth knowing. Philippines seems to be a refuge for people running away from problems or life in general. People that can not make it back home.

 

A while ago I made the mistake of befriending one such guy who at first seemed to be intelligent and genuine.

 

I have since found out that this guy moves from one person to another leaving a trail of destruction in terms of relationships, abuse, broken promises and destroyed lives.

 

Maybe he has no real life of his own so he likes to get into others people's lives and mess them around just to prove he can. He thinks he is a psychologist and will tell you so. What he loves is to mess around in people's heads playing mind games.

 

If you have a girl friend he will try to take her away from you. Not because he actually wants her for himself but simply to prove to himself that he can. Some he will have sex with and others he will just make problems between the couple feeding them any personal information that might have been confided between two mates to cause them to break up. He even fabricates blatant lies.

 

I will not talk about how he has messed around in my life and with my friends but here are some examples of how he works.

 

There was a waitress is gecko bar when it was still just a resto-bar. She had a job and a serious Australian fianc

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Mik

Thanks for the warning. He sounds like a real psycho. Guys like this often get what they deserve. Let's hope so.

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Philippines Escape

I want to edit my post and fix up the bad grammar and change a couple of small things but can not see how.

 

There are a few members here that know this guy and I am sure they will soon be adding comments.

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A_Simple_Man

I am sure it felt good to get all that venom out of your system. I am not sure that you expect anything from this forum except our understanding. You got burnt by someone who you believed to be friend. It has happened to most of us and it does not matter what country you are in. When you say the majority of expats are not worth knowing I start wondering which expats you know. You can tell a lot about a man by the company he keeps. Here's hoping you choose better companions from now on.

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Balay
How to recognize him.

 

He is Australian and 34 years old. He has lived in Cebu for around 3 years. He is around 6

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Bob Ward
That describes a lot of foreigners here:

What color hair ?

How long is his hair cut ?

Mustache ? Sideburns ?

 

What names does he go by ?

 

Does he have any tattoos ?

 

Does he always wear hats or shirts with logos ( some guys have a limited warbrobe )

 

How much do you think he wieghs ?

 

He's going to be entering the "Filipino Justice System" I presume? Best thing for him really.

 

I will say this about that, if a married/attached woman will succumb to his supposed allure, she is just a guilty as he is.

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Balay
I will say this about that, if a married/attached woman will succumb to his supposed allure, she is just a guilty as he is.

 

 

There are very innocent, gullible girls straight out of the province who could succumb to his allure.

 

Where does his income from from Philippines Escape ?

Does he have a business here ?

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broden

messing with someones woman .. successfully or not ,anywhere in the world, is a good way to end up with a very serious leaking problem .. it'll eventually catch up

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Alan S

Sadly, there are some low-lifes of every nationality, and in every country.

 

Anyone who is on shabu (or similar drugs) should be watched carefully, or kept away from, as that makes an unstable person even more so.

 

Sad that someone ruins others, but no doubt he will get his just deserts in due course.

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Archer
He's going to be entering the "Filipino Justice System" I presume? Best thing for him really.

 

I will say this about that, if a married/attached woman will succumb to his supposed allure, she is just a guilty as he is.

 

 

There are very innocent, gullible girls straight out of the province who could succumb to his allure.

 

Where does his income from from Philippines Escape ?

Does he have a business here ?

 

 

Yes, that's true there are innocent, gullible girls straight out from the province who may succumb. But if she is married/attached, then its a different story. Its not like trigonometry or rocket science to know right from wrong.

 

A man who is confident in himself and his relationship should not feel threatened by a dog like this guy! Oddly enough, in the Phils its usually the women who cause problems by going after a married man. This is because many Filipino men can't resist the temptation.

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Balay
Oddly enough, in the Phils its usually the women who cause problems by going after a married man. This is because many Filipino men can't resist the temptation.

 

 

 

Why do you think the reason why Filipino men can resist the temptation ? Eating too much balut ?

 

:o

 

( I think it happens in every country and every culture ... but since are in the Phils... sure why not.. lets blame it on the Filipino men )

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smokey

i have heard of the guy .. my son told me he meet a guy like that a foreigner and the foreigner invited him to another island and HE said the foreigner meet a girl and beat her up so my son left and had to call me for money to get home.. the Foreigner he said hangs out in the bars by mango square ... he threathened my son thru text and we tried to find out his name... NO one knows his name.. I do wonder why NONE of the girls every file a case ??

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i have heard of the guy .. my son told me he meet a guy like that a foreigner and the foreigner invited him to another island and HE said the foreigner meet a girl and beat her up so my son left and had to call me for money to get home.. the Foreigner he said hangs out in the bars by mango square ... he threathened my son thru text and we tried to find out his name... NO one knows his name.. I do wonder why NONE of the girls every file a case ??

 

 

I think I have seen that guy but I am not sure. I am willing to help financially to clean up that piece of garbage. If anyone takes the initiative, please PM me.

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Philippines Escape

I agree with you and accept the responsiblity for my choice of friends but I am not alone in those he has fooled. This is no idiot. Not only does he fool filipinas but also foriegners.

 

As for getting venom out of my system i have not even started with this guy. what do i expect from here...I am hoping that some other people might recognise him and have some information him that can help nail him.

 

 

I am sure it felt good to get all that venom out of your system. I am not sure that you expect anything from this forum except our understanding. You got burnt by someone who you believed to be friend. It has happened to most of us and it does not matter what country you are in. When you say the majority of expats are not worth knowing I start wondering which expats you know. You can tell a lot about a man by the company he keeps. Here's hoping you choose better companions from now on.

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Damairaki

Hhhhmmm...

 

Let's face it amongst the expats in the Philippines you will find sociopats, drug-abusers (shabu), mentally ill, sadists, anarchists, criminals, racists, pedophiles and the likes.

 

You are to be just as cautious when encountering expats as filipinos.

 

The first time I met an expat lying to the filipinas I really got disappointed. He was lying rigth to their face and they belived him. He even had some racist points of view. Later I observed more of them. On shabu. Lying to their wifes. Lying to their girlfriends. Hiding adultry, telling stories about amazing houses that were never gonna be build, 100 million peso worth of stocks that was never there - lies lies lies.

 

It hurt me that they would do that. Yet it is their own choice.

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