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The speed these girls move at is incredible

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BFHammer    584

The biggest challenge is for guys who cannot live there for awhile.  They turn to the internet both for speed and convenience.  Which can work if a fellow is careful and as things progress have pointman check them out.   There will always be surprises whether your in person or online after people are living together.  My last gf in the US was a completely different person after the 2nd year and had to go.  Or maybe I just didn't see it and it was already there.  

 

When a guy has 2 weeks to a couple months to meet a girl and make a decision things will move fast.  So if he is 30-40 range he is taking a risk meeting and marrying quickly.  Yet what is the available pool of gals in that age range back home?  Divorced, bitter, 2-3 kids, and looking for sugar daddy no less than the 20 year old there.  At least worst case he's getting a young pretty gold digger, and if he's careful he's just getting young, pretty, gold. 

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hyaku    2,224

A scam is a scam, long term or short. Maybe best to be satisfied with the fact you are actually free to move on.

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ozboy    6,592

Try a dating site back home..you would be lucky to find one show of interest!!!! enjoy being the centre of attention LOL

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smokey    19,737

The speed these girls move at is incredible. I think I have been through the beggining, middle, and end of a relationship in 3 months. We went through the infatuation period, the every day life stage, and then the realising we are not meant to be together stage, all in 3 months! But, may I add, it was her actions that drove those stages. Anyway, that's not important: the point is, I have found from chatting to many girls online that they want to move at a very fast pace. Any tips on getting them to slow down? 

yes tell them your broke

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jtmwatchbiz    24,075

 

 

The speed these girls move at is incredible. I think I have been through the beggining, middle, and end of a relationship in 3 months. We went through the infatuation period, the every day life stage, and then the realising we are not meant to be together stage, all in 3 months!

 

 

you internet guys are light weights. 3 months? get your boots on the ground here in fuente and y'all can go thru all 3 relationship stages with 2 or 3 gals per nite :)

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Laurence    610

They aren't all after money. I live month to month (income wise) here. But my Filipina wife of 4 years seems love me regardless of my financial situation. So far so good.... careful and lucky.

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SomeRandomGuy    6,494

the traditional philippino woman is almost a thing of the past.

 

Tv and movies and their friends have ruined that.

Maybe if u are a local and courting a girl that is what will be.

Here u are hot property. I met my gf and it took a little while to get to know her.

She was not to keen to go to quick.

U are meeting girls on the internet that are probably chatting to 20 to 30 guys that day.

What do u expect?

 

When I was single in fuente hell that was fun.  If u want a girl to slow down u need to meet that type of girl. They are out there. Screw dating sites.

Get boots on the ground. Actually live here and get to know the culture.

If a girl sleeps with me within the first few meetings well I know it will not last that long as how many other kano has she met and slept with ( oh no im special, i'm different)

I used to be a serial pest up mango( until the lady boy epedemic of 2012) hard to meet a decent girl out at the drinking and dancing places.

Go to malls. Go shopping in area's not alot of kano go. Meet a woman with a job that is not just looking for a pay day.

 

I once dated a girl that within three days had moved in... took me a year to get rid of her... but what a fun year it was.

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goldote    250

you internet guys are light weights. 3 months? get your boots on the ground here in fuente and y'all can go thru all 3 relationship stages with 2 or 3 gals per nite :)

 

That's not the way it's done now.

There's no time; must do it the easy way.

The relationship is staged and locked on line.

You send money.  She starts paperwork.

You make quick token visit. Paperwork

You send money. She or attorney does paperwork.

Girl delivers herself to nearest airport.

Live happily everafter. 

It's not for me, but I've seen it actually work.

Another reason for a quiet Fuente? 

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littlejohn    164

Best advice I have seen on here so far is "find one that has a job" Believe me most aren't together enough to ever hold a job more than a couple months. Those that cant aren't the keepers.

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